Why do feminists claim they are against anyone hitting anyone but cheer on violence against men?

http://www.factmag.com/2017/02/21/princess-nokia-attack-cambridge/

"The rapper, real name Destiny Frasqueri, allegedly asked the audience member if he was being “disrespectful” before adding, “I’m so sorry, but when a white boy disrespects you, you punch him in the ******* face.”"

So basically, it is never ok for men to hit women, even in self defense, but a woman is allowed to hit a man for disrespecting her?

Is it just me or are black feminists the most despicable?

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